This Too Shall Pass

Written by monthly contributor, Mrs. Wanda Fielder

Crazily spinning round and round and tilting sideways on the Tilt a Whirl at a theme park after eating a filling dinner, my stomach began to churn. Desperately trying to compensate for the ill feeling by taking my mind elsewhere just wasn't working.

Hoping the ride would soon come to a halt before I lost my dinner, it did and I did!  The embarrassment of losing my dinner was intensified by having my friends standing by observing this humiliating situation. To make matters even worse, I was on my first date with my future husband! I vowed to never ride the Tilt a Whirl again.  I haven’t!

Instead, I find myself frequently on the Tilt a Whirl of life spinning forever in circles of frustration, ever toiling, never resolving.  Tilting this way and that, wishing for the ride to just slow down a bit or come to a stop so that I can get off; knowing for a fact that it always comes to an end.  It is easy to become bogged down with time-consuming daily routines.  As a mother, I have worn the numerous hats of nurse, taxi driver, mediator, chef, housekeeper, and the list is endless.

Have you heard the saying, ‘this too shall pass’? Just when you think your life is spinning out of control and that you cannot possibly endure another moment of the ride, it comes to a screeching halt. Whoa!  Take a deep breath and compose yourself because the ride will soon commence again. Ahhhh ........... I feel better now. Ready to go once more!

 

Mrs. Wanda Fielder has over thirty years of experience as a pastor's wife, published author, and conference speaker. Over the years she has led many ladies ministries, events, and conferences. She is an excellent Titus 2 mentor and she shares inspirational articles, recipes, ministry ideas and more at her site, Tea-Lightful Inspirations.

 

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Meaningful Easter Traditions: 8 Ideas For Your Family

We've been thinking about what a meaningful Easter looks like for our family, and last year we came up with this plan for being intentional about creating meaningful Easter memories with our children.  Below is the post that I shared last year; I hope that it blesses you and that you are able to integrate some of these ideas in your home!  He is Risen... Hallelujah!

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This Sunday is Palm Sunday, and we intend to make this Easter week more meaningful than ever for our family.

Here's what we're planning to do each of the eight days leading to Easter:

1) Palm Sunday- We'll be out of town on Palm Sunday, but will still re-enact some semblance of Jesus's triumphal entry into Jerusalem as a family. I love the idea of purchasing a few silk palm branches to wave in praises to Jesus! There's a fantastic creative tutorial for decorative palm branches on the Mustard Seeds blog, here. We'll also read Mark 11:1-11 and Luke 18:29-28.

2) Monday - Read Mark 11:15-18, and discuss what happened in the temple that day. Why was Jesus so upset? What can we do to keep the church a meaningful, worshipful place?

3) Tuesday - Talk about Judas making plans to betray Jesus.

4) Wednesday - Watch a children's video relaying the meaning of Easter, such as The Greatest Adventure Stories From the Bible: The Easter Story.

5) Thursday - We'll have a time for foot washing, just as Jesus washed the feet of his disciples on this day, and talk about the importance of serving others. What can we do to encourage serving others in our daily life? We'd also like to recount the passover evening. While I'm not planning a formal Seder meal, we'll have lamb, bitter herbs, unleavened bread, egg, salt water, and grape juice, explaining the meaning of each. In leiu of spreading blood on the door (!) we'll hang red fabric on the door and discuss what it means. What was is like for the Israelites on that night?

6) Friday- Talk about the crucifixion day, and recount the passover and last supper.

7) Saturday - Meditate on Jesus being in the tomb. Our oldest son may enjoy being wrapped up as a mummy (in toilet paper) and we'll talk about burial customs. Also, how did Mary and the disciples feel on this day?

8 ) Easter Sunday - Celebrate that Jesus is risen and read Luke 24:1-9. For further discussion, talk about the day of Pentecost and the Holy Spirit coming in Acts 2 as part of the beauty of the resurrection. He came, died, and rose again because He loved us and wanted us to have new life in Him! I also like Courtney's idea of putting together resurrection eggs.

What will you do to make this Easter meaningful for your family?

Warmly,

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The Simple Overlooking of a Daily Duty

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Written by monthly contributor, Rachel Coltharp

I couldn’t help myself.

The little plant called to me from the grocery store and it whispered the promise of Spring. Never mind that there was snow outside. Right here, right now, was the reminder that lying beneath the frozen ground is life. A promise of life, for only 99 cents. How could I refuse?

It perched so happily on my kitchen countertop, mere inches from the window through which the snow covered ground lies. For several days I happily gazed upon it, warming my hands in the dishwater, it’s promise of Spring warming my heart.

I was shocked to walk in today and find it dead.

What had happened? Nothing dramatic. No freezing wind, no blasting heat. And then it dawned on me. The week before, a dishwasher had been installed in our kitchen. OH HAPPY DAY. The dishwashing time was cut down, and as a result, the little plant that had been delighted over and cared for during dishwashing time had been neglected.

The poor thing had dried out, mere inches from what it needed.

I hastily watered the little thing, and in a few minutes it started to perk up. By the end of the day it was restored to its former beauty. How sad to think it almost died of thirst, so very near the water.

My soul has been like that little plant.

The beautiful promise that was blooming had wilted and dried out because of neglect. It’s usually not because of the blistering heat of a trial or the freezing wind of a hardship.

Sadly, it’s usually the simple overlooking of daily duty: The failure to water the promises of God in my soul with the water of the Word, the daily irrigation that keeps the soil of my mind soft, allowing the seeds of truth to flourish.

How wonderful that we are never too far gone for reviving!  Drip by drip, precious Word, line by line, precept by precept, promise by promise. Every desert place is made fertile ground. Dormant seeds, planted long ago, spring to life when watered by the Word of Truth.

Where do you find yourself? Are you a little wilted? Or barren with no signs of sprout at all?  Take heart dear one. The promise is for you. God’s word will NOT return void of life! Pick up your watering can, the Holy Scripture, and let it saturate your spirit, water your wounds, soak your soul. And then, watch as beautiful things revive, sprout, grow.

Witness the wonder of the Water of Life!

 

Rachel Coltharp is a pastor's wife of one and mother of four. She is fluent in four languages: Infantese, Toddlerspeak, Teenlingo, and Husbandism. She is a writer and public speaker who shares from her real life experiences, mostly mistakes and do-overs. She is a passionate follower of Jesus Christ and an avid disciple of the the Apostolic doctrine. Find her sharing devotions at The Write Word and all things domestic and re-purposed at Galaxy Coltharp.

 

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Gardening with Young Children

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Featured post by Charity Hawkins of The Homeschool Experiment

Planting a garden is a great way to teach kids about healthy food, how plants grow, and the spiritual lessons of God bringing a harvest. March is just the time to begin!

It’s okay if you don’t know anything. Go to the nearest farm store (preferably one where they actually know something, not a big home improvement store), find a man in overalls, and he’ll help you. The people at farm stores or nurseries are usually very knowledgeable. If you don’t have a farm store or nursery, you can try a university extension office for seed planting charts and people who know something.

Just start; you’ll figure it out as you go. It will be a fun adventure and you’ll know more at the end of the summer than the beginning! Think of the fun you and your children will have learning all this together!

1. Get the garden bed ready (before the kids start helping).

If this is your first garden ever, start small. You can use an old plastic wading pool—hack some holes in the bottom of it with your garden spade, fill it up with a few bags of dirt, and you’re good to go. We did this a few years back and it worked great. You’d think the roots would have to go down deeper than the depth of the pool, but somehow our pepper plants figured it out and did really well.

If your husband values landscaping tidiness and (understandably) does not want an old wading pool cluttering up the backyard, you could use pots. I have mostly done basil and tomatoes in pots, but I’m sure lots of things would work well.

If you have a husband who is not an accountant and is not working every Saturday in February and March, maybe he could build you a raised garden bed. Or if you have a wonderful, wonderful father-in-law, he might come over and help you out. A raised bed is good because it gets filled with nice healthy soil instead of grass, and it has good drainage.

If you already have a garden from last year, you’ll need to weed it and get the soil ready. I pay some neighborhood boys to come over and till the dirt with their gas-powered tillers. In an hour they have the garden ready to plant, and it’s worth the thirty dollars for me not to have to spend two days weeding and tilling by hand. You can also ask the people at your farm store what you should add to your soil to make it rich for the plants to grow. It will depend on your area and soil, but they’ll sell you a big bag of something. (If you feel up to it, you can read online about how to make a simple compost heap, and then next year you’ll have your own great compost to add to your  the garden.)

2. Go to the farm store or nursery (with the kids).

Since it’s March, you’ll be looking for “cool weather” crops, like spinach, radishes, most kinds of lettuces, peas, and possibly beans. What you plant and the exact dates will depend what the temperature is like where you live. The nursery or farm store should have a handout of dates for your area, but I’d call first to make sure, because if not you’ll need to look this up online and see what you should be planting now.

Our spring garden always does vastly better than our summer one. I forget to water a lot, and Oklahoma is crazy hot in the summer, so our summer garden (peppers, tomatoes, squash) wilts and limps along. But spring gardens are great because a) you probably want to be outside in the sunshine anyway b) you can count this as science and c) the weather is more conducive to not killing things—usually there is rain and reasonable temperatures.

Get your packets of seeds (we typically do spinach, lettuces, arugula, peas, radishes and beans), and then get all your shovels and spades and head to the garden.  You can learn how to save seeds and plant them the next year, but I’m not sure if this always works. (I think it has to do with if it’s a hybrid or how it pollinates or some other words I don’t really understand.)  I keep meaning to check into it, because that would be much more economical.  If you’re new to gardening, just buy the seeds.  If you’re interested later, you can try to figure out how to preserve seeds for next year’s garden.

3. Plant the seeds.

My kids love digging in the dirt, so here they are breaking up the soil after the neighborhood guys tilled it. This breaks up the big chunks so the roots can grow better. (We were ignoring those monstrous weeds in the background.)

Last year I sat my toddler down at one end so he could continue his merry digging, and my daughter and son (ages seven and five) made rows and dropped in the seeds. Basically, you make a long indentation in the dirt, then sprinkle the seeds in. You’ll thin them out later, plus the kids will not be too exact about all this. The basic idea is to just get them in the ground roughly in a line.

4. Mark your rows.

I give the older kids popsicle sticks and we write the names of each seed on them with Sharpies. These are our row markers. (This counts as handwriting and spelling. If you wanted, you could talk about the inches between rows and work some math in there too.)

5. Water the garden. Pray for it. Talk about God.

I usually tell my kids the verse about “I planted, Apollos watered, but God makes it grow” I Corinthians 3:6. We talk about how we plant the seeds, but God gives sunshine and rain, and he makes the plants grow.

There are so many spiritual applications with seeds. As you read the Bible with your children, you can look for more. A simple one is how the seeds are like when we hide God’s word in our heart, but we have to pull out the weeds (distractions, sin) that would eventually kill out our plants. When we weed, we talk about the weeds being like sin that would eventually choke out our good plants.

6. Care for your garden (let the kids help weed and water).

Whenever you’re out in the backyard, preferably at least weekly, pull out the weeds. When the sprouts start to come up (shown below), you’ll want to thin out the plants, to give them enough room to grow. My kids love this. Look at those babies (these pictures are from several years ago), happily thinning out the garden!

7. Observe it (integrate science).

If you have the time and inclination, this would make a great observation for a science or nature journal. Charlotte Mason, an eighteenth century educator, advocated learning science through lots of hands-on observation.  You could have your kids draw a picture of the seed, then the sprout, then the full-grown plant and make as many observations as they can. Try to stick with the same plant from start to finish. So, draw the radish seed, then the plant, then when you pull it, before you deliver it to Grandma’s house (or eat it), draw the radish. That would be a gorgeous one to do a watercolor of, because of that vibrant red color.

If you have a preschooler, you could have her tell you a few sentences about her seed or her gardening, then you write it down and she could draw a picture. An elementary school student might draw a picture, look up the names of the parts of the seed in a book and label it, and write a few observations. I would think even a high school or junior high student could do this, just with beautiful illustrations and observations. See Edith Holden’s exquisite The Country Diary of an Edwardian Lady for nature journal inspiration.

8. Pick it and eat it (May/June).

The first year I planted a garden, I totally forgot about picking and eating the food! I had no idea when I was supposed to do that! If you planted those cool-weather seeds, they will be ready for harvest around May/June, depending on your location and weather. Basically, when the heat comes, your lettuce will start to wilt. I usually head out to the garden with scissors in May (or send my son out with safety scissors) and start snipping off the baby leaves directly into my salad spinner where I will wash them.

You want to wash your greens very, very well, so maybe fill your salad spinner up three or four times with water and drain it out. Because that lovely salad won’t taste nearly as good if you find a dead caterpillar in it, trust me.

If you do happen to find live caterpillars on your greens though, or tiny jewel-like green eggs, this is GREAT! Do not throw them back. Put them in a big Glad plastic container, poke some holes in the lid, and now you have caterpillars to raise. They are probably cabbage moths (white with a black dot on the wing). For food, you want to give them  whatever leaf you found them on. Butterflies and moths are very picky about what they eat, so give them the kind of food they like. You can identify what type of butterfly it is by what the caterpillar looks like. Basically, you keep giving it the food it likes, and put some sticks in the container, and give it a wet paper towel in there so it has some water. Then, when it’s eaten a lot and gotten very big and fat, it will make a cocoon and you and your children get to watch it hatch out as a butterfly! I will try to do a whole separate post about that sometime, but you can read about it online or get a book from your library about it.

I love having fresh arugula because it’s so expensive in the store, and it’s nice to have greens readily available for salads and spring rolls. My kids get so excited to dig for radishes, and though they don’t like the taste because they’re so spicy, they love to collect them and take them to their radish-loving grandma. Their garden favorites are spinach leaves dipped in raspberry vinaigrette and the yummy, yummy peas.

If you still have energy after the spring garden, you can plant tomatoes, peppers, squash, and basil (lots and lots of basil) when it gets warmer. Those are a lot of fun to eat, but you do have to actually remember to water and weed them, which I can’t seem to do. My herbs (basil, cilantro, dill and fennel for butterflies) do the best.

Our beans usually don’t make it, I think because it gets so hot and we forget to water them enough. If you can, put your hose on a timer. I finally got my outside faucet repaired, so I’m going to try to do a timer. Maybe this is the year our summer crops will thrive!

Moms, have fun with your gardens, enjoy your kiddos, and simply see what God makes grow!


Charity Hawkins is the author of The Homeschool Experiment, a novel about one mom’s year of dinner, diapers, meltdowns, and math lessons. You can learn more at www.thehomeschoolexperiment.com.

 

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Anticipation

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Written by monthly Titus 2 contributor, Mrs. Wanda Fielder

Wedding Day

Oh, the anticipation of that most delightful day of a young girl's life!

I remember it well - - thinking for sure the Lord would return before I had experienced this grand event. Hours of preparation included a house filled with bridal magazines to peruse, candles, soft white tulle, shiny fabrics and pages of planning notes – all an integral part of this magnificent journey.  Alas, it came to pass, and I was well rewarded for all the years of anticipation!

Childbirth

Almost every woman's desire after marriage is the birth of one's offspring.

Nine months seem to creep by as the anxious parents dream of the new bundle of joy that is coming their way. Bottles, diapers, tears?  Not a problem that we can't handle. Nursery décor is happily furnished as well as infant clothing, bedding, toys, and basic needs.  The anticipation is almost unbearable, but soon the awaited day rewards the parents with a fabulous bundle of joy!  A child like no other!  Surely a genius; most certainly the most beautiful baby ever born!

Christ's Return

The greatest of all anticipations!

Are you just as excited today about His return as you were when you first met Him?  Don't lose your fervor and zeal for this magnificent day!  It is going to happen just as we are told in God's Word. It is so easy to let the busyness of our everyday routines smother our anticipation.  The enemy of our soul wants us to believe that it is only a myth and will never transpire.  Don’t be fooled; He is coming soon!  St. John 14:2, 3 promises,

“In my Father’s house are many mansions:  if it were not so, I would have told you.  I go to prepare a place for you.  And if I go and prepare a place for you, I will come again, and receive you unto myself; that where I am there ye may be also.”

Oh, I can hardly wait!

 

Mrs. Wanda Fielder has over thirty years of experience as a pastor's wife, published author, and conference speaker. Over the years she has led many ladies ministries, events, and conferences. She is an excellent Titus 2 mentor and she shares inspirational articles, recipes, ministry ideas and more at her site, Tea-Lightful Inspirations.

 

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Back to the Family Table

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Written by monthly Titus 2 contributor, Mrs. Faye Henry

The family home today is a very busy place.  Perhaps both parents are working outside of the home and the children may be involved in extracurricular activities.  The trend toward either just eating and running or else setting ourselves in front of some entertainment while we gulp down our food is on the rise.

Let's consider the importance of getting back to the table:

Dining together provides so many benefits for helping your family grow into the strong loving unit that the Lord intended.  It can be a special time daily for you as a family to consider one another.  Each day is full of highs and lows and your dinner table can be a place of encouragement and support...A wonderful time of laughing together... It can also be a lovely way of teaching your children manners, etiquette, and even leadership and hospitality skills.

If mama can make at least one meal a day a happy family time then it will prove to be time of blessing and memory making, and well worth the investment of time and effort.

Frugal tips for setting your dinner table:

  • In the photo above are two tea towels which were only one dollar each, divided into two place mats and four napkins.
  • Cut one tea towel in two for place mats and the other one into four napkins.  I did sew the edges but perhaps you don't really need to...smile...
  • The place settings are just thrift store finds.
  • Blending the colors can make an attractive but frugal eclectic table.
  • Cutting off the two sides of this three dollar vintage table cloth made two table runners, and then I divided the middle into four napkins.

The place settings are two small sets of thrift store vintage dishes blended together to make one large one.  We don't need fancy tables all the time, but it is lovely once in a while to have a special family meal.

One last frugal and decorative tip is to collect vintage silverware.  It does not need to match and it will add style to your eclectic table settings!  Check my site HERE for a green and frugal way to clean your silverware.

Children can help make meal times special by helping mama with the preparations.  Helping to cook the food and setting the table can be fun and creative; girls might like to create a centerpiece, and boys can fill water glasses and arrange the chairs or cutlery.

Then, as a family sit down together, holding hands and thanking the Lord for the blessings of food and fellowship.

Remember, sweet mamas, that these lovely days of family pass all too quickly... let's count our blessings and head back to the table!


Mrs. Faye Henry has been married to her sweetheart for over 41 years and together they own a lovely shop in New Brunswick, Canada. She also leads many young ladies, wives, and mothers in "Keepers of the Home" classes that she facilitates in the local community. She has a heart for mentoring younger women and fulfilling the Titus 2 mandate! Won't you pop over and visit Mrs. Henry at The Blessed Hearth? Pour yourself a nice hot cup of tea and stay for awhile. The fire is lit and burning brightly and the candles smell heavenly. Biscuits are in the oven...

 

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