For the past few weeks, my dear friends Amy and Caroline have shared their hearts and convictions in a series called "She Wear Skirts." While we may not agree on every single aspect in the series, I love that they took a difficult (and often controversial) topic, fleshed it out, and presented it on their blogs. Be sure to pop over and read through their thought-provoking posts.
It's beautiful to watch God draw the hearts of His women back to modesty and femininity.
In support of their series, I'm honored to be linking up with them today and sharing a handful of my personal photos. Personally, I choose to wear skirts daily, and have found they can easily be beautiful, comfortable, and practical (yes, even in cold winter months!).
Regardless of where you stand on the subject of modesty, dressing feminine, and what that looks like in your life, I hope you'll find that skirts can be fun, fashionable, and beautiful!
(Please pardon that I never seem to look at the camera; I really dislike having my pictures taken! Are any of you camera shy as well?)
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I also only wear skirts and I love it! I didn’t grow up that way but started shortly after I got married. My husband and I both love it! Pants have no appeal to me now.
Yes, I wear skirts ALL the time. I have never worn a pair of pants. I believe wearing pants is against scripture. To wear pants would be to committ an abomination to God. I don’t wear anything pertains to a man.
Hi! Stopping by on the link-up. Just wanted to say that I LOVE your skirt outfits! I was wondering if those are ski pants underneath the skirt in the snow picture? We had more snow here in the south than normal last year and it was a little hard to find something warm and cute to wear underneath a dress. Yours looks cute and comfy though!
I haven’t made a post for linking up yet (I’m never the one behind the camera either!) but I’ll have to see what I can come up with since it’s a great idea. Nice to ‘meet’ you!
Tyra, it’s nice to meet you, too
Yes, those are snow pants in the photo, under a green knee-length empire dress. I’m glad you like the outfit! We are in the Chicago metro area, and the Windy City can be especially brutal in the winter, but we make it work.
Hugs to you!
Thanks for the reply!! We live in north Alabama so normally our winters are pretty mild but this past year we were pleasantly surprised to get some snowfall a few times. I will definitely have to check out the snow pants for next year. I love wearing skirts but am not opposed to bundling up with layers underneath to stay warm and dry!
I found your blog from the Raising Homemakers website. I spent the evening reading through both of those blogs, following a link from another blog.
I wear skirts daily too, and am working on getting my daughters to wear them more frequently too.
Thanks for sharing your photos.
Hello, I’m visiting from Amy’s link party. You have such a beautiful family. I love that you’ve made skirts work for your personal style. That’s what I liked so much about the series, it told women that skirt wearing didn’t have to be frumpy. It’s nice to see what you do when it gets cold. It doesn’t snow where we live so I don’t struggle with figuring out how to stay warm in skirts and it’s no problem staying cool in them.
I agree about having my picture taken. I do not like it at all.
Lisa~
Thank you for sharing! I’m following the Link-up as I’ve been keeping up with the ‘skirts’ series. Wonderful pictures! I am not a skirt wearer as of yet! (I’m 8mths pregnant, so figured for budgeting sake, I’d wait till after the baby). Although, I do consider myself a modest dresser to start with, skirts seem to speak of femininity, and being a lady.
I look forward to the new adventure!
I agree! I find skirts much more comfortable than pants and they are very practical (even in the winter!). Great post and pictures. Thanks for sharing.
Thank you for linking up! I’m so glad you did.
You look lovely in all you wear, I especially like the snow pants picture!!
Thank you for linking up! I’m so glad you did.
You look lovely in all you wear, I especially like the snow pants picture!!
Thank you, Caroline!
Hi!
This is my first time commenting and I wanted to tell you what a blessing your blog is to me.
I began wearing skirts and allowing my hair to grow long about two years ago. The skirts are usually mid-calf length and loose and flowing. I pull my hair back most days and it seems that God is dealing with me regarding wearing a covering. I go back and forth in my thinking about that, so I’ve decided to hold off until I feel fully committed.
Getting back to skirts. I have noticed a very definate attitude of respect from men (young and old) that just was not there while I wore slacks. I definately feel more feminine in skirts, and it helps me to mind the other aspects of my demeanor as well. Such as keeping a sweet and quiet spirit.
I would love to know if others have noticed some of these things as they wear skirts.
Many Blessings…
Colleen
Colleen, thank you so much for commenting! Yes, I’ve noticed what you speak of, especially in regards to simple things such as men holding doors open for me at the store. True gentlemen! What a blessing they are!
And just a small note, since you mention hair, 1 Corinthians 11 (especially v. 15) speaks powerfully on the subject. Perhaps you are already familiar with this passage and have prayerfully considered it? You are welcome to email me privately if you like at abubblingbrook[at]gmail.com.
It’s so nice to meet you!
I wear skirts daily as well. I started doing so about 5 years ago. The Lord had dealt with my heart regarding the matter for some time.
I must ask, though how you fix your hair. It looks so pretty in a bun. I often wear a bun and have tried to experiment with it to make it look more pleasant. Any help you can give would be greatly appreciated. I stay at home and homeschool my children, but I still want to look presentable to both my children and my husband. Hope this request does not seem too silly.
Thanks! I enjoy your blog- just found it about a month ago.
Rebekah, your request isn’t silly at all! It’s an honorable desire to presentable – beautiful! – for your husband and an example for your children.
I keep my hair in a bun or low chignon because it is so very simple, and I have found the Lilla Rose flexi-clips to be very helpful (you can find their advertisement in my sidebar, under Sponsors & Affiliates). There are also videos with styling ideas on the Lilla Rose site.
Otherwise, I pull my hair back to the nape of my neck and secure with a barette or two, then twist my hair around it and secure with pins. You can also do a YouTube search for messy bun, long hair styles, etc and find more ideas. There are many options that are simple, clean, and even somewhat elegant.
I’m glad you are enjoying the blog. I’m blessed to have you here!
I’m a part-timer. I wear skirts about 4 days a week. Modesty is a huge issue for me so all clothes that my girls & I wear have to be modest. No spagetti straps or anything above the knee
I grew up wearing skirts only… well.. and culottes … and honestly I hated it. It’s not that I hated wearing skirts it’s that I hated that it had to be so cut and dry across the board…. absolutely no pants ever. Some people I grew up around even believed it was wrong to wear pants under a dress like you did with your snow pants. To use the Deuteronomy verse as an argument against pants is clearly taken out of context. Anyway, my husband and I are still the same faith that I grew up… just a less legalistic form of it. If you came to our church though, you would see most ladies in skirts but at an activity you would see most ladies in loose fitting pants.
I have chosen personally that whenever I do wear pants that they either need to be very loose fitting or I wear a long shirt or a sun dress over them…a lot of the time though, especially in the summer I wear skirts. I don’t wear shorts as I do believe to uncover the thigh is nakedness. HOwever, here is a good thought for everyone. Most men (who are not legalistic about this issue) that I have discussed this with say that they are much more prone to look at and are attracted to a women in a knee length skirt than jeans or other pants because they can see skin. just a thought. Also, just wearing a skirt in not always feminine. I know plenty of ‘ladies’ wear skirts with a sloppy t-shirt and don’t carry themselves in a very feminine way at all.
I believe being truly feminine starts with our heart and obviously includes much much more than our dress.
Ashley, biblical modesty and femininity encompasses so much more than what we do or don’t wear, I agree with you on that statement. It’s a heart issue, but it will inevitably manifest itself outwardly in some form or fashion. Similarly, I always try to remember that I represent Christ with everything I do, say, and wear.
Thank you for sharing your thoughts! I’m glad you’re here!
I definitely agree that when we walk close to God that if will have a dramatic impact on the way that we dress.
You know me….a skirt wearer as well! But not until I got saved at the age of 19. I wrote a post on this a couple of months back:
http://raisingmightyarrows.blogspot.com/2011/04/musings-on-modesty-part-2.html
Blessings,
Heather
Thanks for sharing your link, Heather. I appreciate your encouragement!
I’ve been wearing skirts all the time for close to twenty years now. I was raised that way, and now that I’m on my own have still chosen to continue. Partly because it would feel ‘weird’ to change now, but mainly because I like how feminine skirts are. I’ve enjoyed reading all the posts and thoughts on this lately. Like you, I may not agree with everything, but it’s good to think about why we do what we do!
I love the brown skirt you’re wearing in the second picture:-)
My favorite place to buy new skirts is Cato.
Have a blessed day,
Stefanie
Beautiful skirts! I enjoy wearing skirts for how feminine they make me feel… I am a former tomboy/feminist, so it’s sort of my outward proclamation that I’ve embraced my identity as a woman as God designed me!
Jaime, from a man’s perspective (please forgive me for crashing the party), things like skirts, long hair, modest adornment and a gentle spirit are distinctly feminine and beautiful. It almost seems instinctive for me to show an “extra” level of respect for those women. It’s amazing how Biblical femininity will bring out the complementary masculinity of a Christian gentleman/barbarian. Inside I am a savage for the Lord… which means I will savagely protect those that are weaker and not attempting to purport themselves as someone wanting to take on MY role. To all those that reflect a humble heart after God by the way you present yourselves, you have my respect, loyalty and protection. You all are truly the personification of the unique beauty in God’s heart. God bless you ~~ Don (www.hlministries.blogspot.com)
What graciously written words! I shared your comment with my husband and he feels the same. Thank you so much for coming by and taking the time to leave such an encouraging, thoughtful perspective! How refreshing!
I am enjoying this conversation, and plan to ask my husband if he prefers I wear skirts and dresses. Any excuse I can come up with has been covered! Your snow pants reminds me of when I was in first grade! I am 62, so that was a VERY long time ago. We lived in Norfolk, VA at the time, and girls wore dresses. Period. When it was cold, my Mom put long pants on me under my dress, but I think we had to take our long pants off when we got to school!
What a beautiful memory! Thank you for sharing it!
What a beautiful skirt-wearing Momma you are! Your humble, gentle, sweet character so commends the gospel of our Lord. What a blessing to call you friend! Love, kel
*I* am the one blessed to call *YOU* friend, Kelly. I appreciate you and your encouraging spirit! xoxo
first off – i love the blog!
second – i am a full time skirt wear-er too. for the last several years. i agree that the verse in Deuteronomy has nothing to do with women wearing pants- it has to do with going to war. BUT the verse in Titus does tell us to wear “a long flowing garment that can be let down”. it is the word karastole. and it is the only time it is used in Scripture. i wrote a short post awhile back if you are interested
http://agodlyhomemaker.blogspot.com/2009/05/dresses-only.html
http://agodlyhomemaker.blogspot.com/2008/07/should-women-wear-pants.html i didn’t write this but shared many posts from those who did.
Nice to meet you, Tami! So glad you are here!
Loved these photos of skirts and your lovely hair style – kinda glad you weren’t looking at the photo so I could see your hair bun.
I love wearing my hair up but find that as it gets longer, the strain of wearing it up seems to increase my ‘shedding’. Maybe the gentle, lila rose clip would be the answer?
I grew up very conservatively, wearing skirts all the time. I’m now in a place of more freedom, but I still prefer a skirt! Definitely wearing one today as they really are cooler in this heat wave we’re having in Upstate New York.
Don’t be camera-shy… you’re gorgeous, my dear friend!!
Enjoyed the lovely pictures you shared. I appreciate your modest and feminine tastes!
Thank you, Kristy — you are sweet!
I appreciate your article. I grew up wearing skirts/dresses with a dad who was sincere yet very strict. I do not resent having to wear skirts. I no longer wear skirts all the time but I would agree that they are more modest and feminine. Anyone wanting to do a little poll for themselves need only go to a Christian conference of some sort (women’s,homeschooler, etc.) . During the breaks just take a seat and watch as women pass by. If one takes a moment to notice the differences in apparel and body shape one will conclude that skirts/dresses are not only more modest but the women in them also are more attractive. I did this a few months back. My pastor- husband prefers that I wear skirts for most events but also concluded that in some types of situations loose pants/crops are the more modest choice. I appreciate that you seem to have sense of fashion/appropriateness with your appearance and don’t seem to just be following the crowd. (Whether that crowd be a well meaning group of skirt wearers or pant’s wearers!) We must get our hearts in tune with the Lord’s directives and our husband’s desires in this area and know that Jesus will bless us as we do.
so after spending some time reading… one link leads to the next
It actually left me feeling a little discouraged and concerned my husband and son. We as christians can seek to dress modest however, they are still living in a world full of immodest girls and women and after reading some of the articles I feel like it’s hopeless for them to live in this world and keep their thoughts pure. My husband and both of my dad’s (dad and step-dad) have said that they honestly do not notice a girl in jeans, unless they are very tight. but a lot of the articles I read made it seem as if when a man sees a woman in jeans at all unless they are extremely baggy and show nothing that they are automatically going to struggle with lust. obviously it isn’t limited to pants it can be shirts that aren’t sacks as well. If all men are like this I am thinking that in our culture it’s impossible for my husband to stay faithful in his thought life. that’s the way these articles make it seem anyway. They are meant for a good purpose, to encourage Christian ladies to dress modestly but they leave me feeling hopeless because my husband and son are not just around christian ladies. Can my husband not go to the grocery store without lusting? I have asked him about this and he says that every man is different but he thinks a lot of these articles are a little extreme making it seem like men lust over any skin, or shape of woman they might see.
Sweet friend, I pray that you did not leave my post discouraged; my intention was only to give a glimpse into my own life, how I wear skirts, that they can be practical, and encourage other women towards modesty and femininity. I kept it brief and without a myriad of Bible verses and commentaries for that purpose.
Please know that I am not endorsing any of the information or links that my readers may have left in the comments section.
I’m glad you are here, and I want you to leave here encouraged and inspired in Christ. It’s a progressive journey for all of us, and we may not all agree on everything. The fact that you care enough to consider the issue and even discuss it with your husband speaks volumes to me.
Much love,
Jaime
Skirts can definitely NOT be modest, but when they are I agree they look and feel more feminine – and comfortable – than pants. I still need sweatpants in the winter to be warm though. I’ve tried long, corduroy skirts and am still cold..
Have you tried thick leggings under your skirts in the winter??
Thick, quality leggings work wonders, don’t they?
If you didn’t see my previous comment… I am not skirts only… but still very conservative in my dress and I am in skirts OFTEN.